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Are you feeling overwhelmed and stressed out? Do you wonder if you might be experiencing anxiety and curious to know more about what this might mean? Keep reading to see if these forms of anxiety might resonate with your current experience. 

 

Please note, the information below about anxiety disorders is meant to be a helpful tool for you. Just because you meet some of the criteria doesn’t necessarily mean that you would meet criteria for an anxiety diagnosis. And if you do meet criteria for a diagnosis here is what it does not mean:

  • It does not mean that you are stuck feeling anxious forever

  • It does not mean that something is “wrong with you”

  • It does not mean that you are somehow “weaker” than someone else not experiencing anxiety (in fact, you are likely getting stronger every day because of the work required to deal with the struggles you are facing, even if it may not feel like it)

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  • That you’re dealing with a significant issue that needs to be addressed so you can achieve greater mental health

  • That your symptoms may be getting to a place that is disruptive to your well-being

  • That you now have a clearer picture of what you are dealing with so that you can pursue the best course of treatment.

Here is what an anxiety diagnosis may mean

Anxiety Disorders

 

 

  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

In order to be diagnosed with GAD, you have to have experienced symptoms of anxiety for some time--at least six months.  If anxiety is negatively affecting your life and your answer is “yes” to some of the following questions, it is possible you would meet criteria for Generalized Anxiety Disorder. [Of course, a licensed mental health professional would help you know more certainly]

  • Do you find yourself unable to relax?

  • Do you notice that you have been frequently agitated, that things that may have been little annoyances in the past are causing you to have a bigger reaction?

  • Are you having a hard time falling or staying asleep, and notice that your mind is spooling on different thoughts at night?

  • Are you regularly experiencing low energy?

  • Are you having difficulty paying attention and staying focused?

 

  • Panic Disorder 

Someone may have Panic Disorder if they have recurrent panic attacks. The possible symptoms of panic attacks are numerous and vary from person to person. Some symptoms of panic attacks include palpitations, feeling like you are having a difficult time breathing, nausea, and chest pain.  Because someone experiencing panic attacks is having physical symptoms sometimes it can be difficult to discern whether it is anxiety or an actual physical problem that is occurring. These physical symptoms can lead an individual to think they are dying, or at least that they need significant medical attention. It is very important when experiencing physical symptoms, even if if feels they may be the result of anxiety, to rule out the possibility of a physical cause to some of the symptoms previously described.  Ruling out physical health issues makes it easier to pursue the right course of treatment, if it is determined that anxiety is the cause for the physical symptoms.

 

  • Social Anxiety Disorder (also called Social Phobia)

This type of anxiety, as the name suggests, is specific to social situations. People with social anxiety may be very worried about what people think of them. After a social event, they may find themselves replaying their interactions with others to determine if they may have said something “wrong” or “embarrassing.” Sometimes social situations are avoided completely due to these concerns. I love working with people to create “wins” in social settings so that their “muscle” is continually developed to become more and more comfortable when going to new places or meeting new people.

 

  • Obsessive - Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

OCD is unique among anxiety disorders in that it involves the element of compulsion. This means that there is a feeling of anxiety and, in order to alleviate that feeling, the person with OCD engages in a compulsive behavior. Some common ways that OCD presents is through checking (like making sure lights are turned off, the door is locked, or the oven is off), symmetry (needing things arranged a certain way), and contamination fears. 

 

OCD is not just preferring things to look or be a certain way.  With OCD, if things are not a certain way, there is intense anxiety associated.  For instance, someone without OCD might not be exactly sure if they locked the door when leaving the house but they might make the assumption that they probably locked it and it will be ok. Someone with OCD that involves checking might lock the door, know they locked the door, but after leaving aren’t quite sure they locked the door and it causes so much anxiety that they return (sometimes multiple times) to make sure that the door is locked. Someone without OCD might enjoy organization but if something is out of place it is more of a preference that it be returned to the order they enjoy. Someone with symmetry OCD might be in anguish when something isn’t in an exact arrangement and feel they cannot control the need to return an item to its “correct” place. Someone without OCD might like to keep their house clean but if there is an occasional mess, although it is not preferred, it can be tolerated. Someone with contamination OCD may feel that if they touch the garbage can and do not wash their hands, then they could potentially get sick, or even that it is likely they will get sick. In addition, if they touch the garbage can and then touch other items without first washing their hands, they are “contaminating” whatever they touch.

(There is an additional sort of subset of contamination OCD referred to as “disgust OCD.” In this situation, someone may not necessarily be concerned that germs will cause them to get sick, but they may just be disgusted, or really not like, to have things they consider dirty touching them or their things)

 

 

An important note about diagnosis:

(Mental health diagnoses are made using the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Fifth Edition (DSM-5).  The DSM-5 is the original base from which clinicians speak about symptoms that meet criteria for diagnosis, such as those described above.)

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

 

Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy is one of the most effective methods of treating anxiety. It involves looking at potential thinking errors in order to “train the brain” to develop alternative, and more positive and truthful, thoughts. Often, when someone is experiencing anxiety, there is a tendency to think of the worst case scenario, and spend time in thinking that isn’t helpful. CBT tools can be very effective in changing thinking in order to decrease anxiety.

  • Exposure Therapy

Exposure and Response Prevention is the gold standard for treating OCD. It can also be very effective for treating social anxiety. Both of these issues can cause someone to avoid situations that cause anxiety. It is important to expose oneself to these anxiety-producing situations in order to become used to (or “habituate to”) them so that the anxiety experienced is ultimately reduced. The thought of doing Exposure and Response Prevention can be very frightening, because it requires facing situations that cause anxiety. When I am working with people using Exposure and Response Prevention, we always go at the pace that is comfortable to them, and spend time in communication about what they want to work on and where they want to go with treatment.

Treatments for anxiety

I provide counseling services solely through telehealth. Telehealth has many benefits.  

  • Comfortable. You pick a space for sessions that feels most comfortable to you.

  • Convenient. You can more simply schedule counseling appointments between other daily tasks, including work schedules.

  • Saves time. No need to add commute time.

  • Confidential. You get to pick a confidential spot for your video or phone session.

  • Social Distanced. You can receive counseling services without needing to meet in a small office space

  • Accessible. You can engage in counseling sessions even if you live in a rural area, you only need a phone or internet connection.

  • Choice of counselor. We can meet even if you live hours away.

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Benefits of Telehealth

Do you want to work one-on-one with a Christian counselor on issues of anxiety, including things like social anxiety, panic attacks, generalized anxiety, or obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)? Are you dealing with relationship issues or life changes? Be sure to set up a free phone consultation at 503-974-7775 or kristen@upliftingcounsel.com. I provide telehealth counseling to clients in Texas and Oregon and would love to talk with you about the possibility of working together to help you to overcome anxiety.

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